Can breastfeeding ever feel so good that it’s bad?
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Can breastfeeding ever feel so good that it’s bad?

The simple fact is that the same hormones and parts of the body that are involved in breastfeeding and childbirth, are also involved in arousal, which means it’s completely feasible that someone can experience (and enjoy) arousal during childbirth or breastfeeding.

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How long to breastfeed
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How long to breastfeed

Parents feeding toddlers and older children may be subject to unhelpful and critical comments that can be hurtful and really undermine their confidence in how they are caring for their child.

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A bit about The Breast Room
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A bit about The Breast Room

The Breast Room is a registered charity providing free breastfeeding support for families in and around Dunedin ever since. But how does this happen? How is The Breast Room funded, what training do volunteers have?

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How does trauma happen in our brain and body?
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How does trauma happen in our brain and body?

As a consequence, memories of traumatic events can easily be triggered by random sensory input from everyday events, causing us to experience “normal” circumstances to be dangerous.

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What is birth trauma?
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What is birth trauma?

When it comes to birth trauma though, what do we mean? We imagine that if someone has a difficult birth they will automatically be offered some support, some kind of debrief. But what is a difficult birth? What seems like a difficult birth for one person, may not be for another.

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Tongue Tie (Ankyloglossia)
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Tongue Tie (Ankyloglossia)

If a baby is tongue tied, some mothers experience pain that cannot be managed by improved positioning and latching. The nipple may be squashed or grazed by the tongue causing bruising and/or bleeding, or cracked nipples.

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Deja vu for Briar
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Deja vu for Briar

So here I am again, writing; to help process what we are experiencing as we head into birthing in a pandemic, and for other birthing persons out there, in the same situation of Deja Vu, to realise you are not alone.

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Postpartum care at home?
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Postpartum care at home?

Having a plan for how your care will look if you go straight home after giving birth is useful, especially if your local maternity hospital is suddenly unable to provide postpartum care for all birth givers on a ward.

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A new baby in the family?
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A new baby in the family?

A new baby on the way or just arrived? Congratulations! Of course you are going to want the very best for this new member of your family…

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More Recognition
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More Recognition

Mamas in Lockdown has been added to the "Books on Prescription" scheme!

Run by WellSouth Primary Health Network, this scheme is an effective way of helping people with common mental health problems.

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A year ago today
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A year ago today

As those babies born during lockdown are getting closer to their first birthday, there will be much reflection on what has happened, and what it was like a year ago.

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